In a shallow bowl, add coconut milk. In a separate bowl, add the next 7 ingredients (coconut flour through onion powder) and stir to combine. Coat each chicken tender with coconut milk, and then dredge in the coconut mixture, covering each piece well. Set aside to rest for at least 10 minutes.
Heat the coconut oil in a large skillet. Place the coated chicken on one side and cook for 10 to 12 minutes and then flip. Continue to cook for another 8 to 10 minutes, or until the chicken is cooked through. Remove from the heat and set aside.
In a medium bowl, toss together olive oil, lime juice, kale, onion and sea salt and pepper to taste, coating kale well.